Surviving the Holidays: Managing Challenging Behaviors During Festive Times

The holiday season brings joy, connection, and celebration – but for families of children with behavioral challenges such as ADHD, ODD, or anxiety, it can also bring stress, overstimulation, and disruption to routines. You may feel like you’ve exhausted every strategy, yet your child still struggles with basic cooperation, arguing, defiance, and emotional dysregulation that can lead to mild to severe meltdowns—and even aggression.

Helping parents prepare for the unique behavioral challenges of the holiday season is essential. The Kazdin Method® of Parent Management Training (PMT) offers practical, evidence-based strategies to maintain calm and reinforce positive behavior — even when your children’s routines go off track.

1. Predict and Prepare for Disruptions

Parents can often anticipate situations that may lead to problem behaviors. Crowded gatherings, changes in sleep schedules, and sugar-filled treats are predictable triggers. Make a plan in advance — perhaps by previewing the day’s events with your child, setting clear expectations, and scheduling calm breaks between activities.

Kazdin Strategy Tip:
Use positive opposites – instead of telling a child not to misbehave (“Don’t run in Grandma’s house”), prompt the desired behavior (“Use walking feet indoors”). Then immediately praise compliance to strengthen it.

2. Maintain Predictable Routines

Even during the holidays, maintaining a core structure provides a sense of security. Bedtimes, mealtimes, and downtime should remain as consistent as possible. Consistency reduces stress and makes children more receptive to direction and praise.

Parents can create visual schedules or transition cues for special days when routines differ. The goal isn’t rigid structure — it’s predictability and clarity.

3. Use Praise and Rewards Generously

Amidst holiday busyness, it’s easy to overlook small moments of cooperation. Parents can “catch their child being good” — using specific praise such as, “I love how you waited your turn to open gifts.”

In the Kazdin Method®, praise and positive reinforcement are core tools for changing behavior. Pair praise with small rewards — extra playtime, a favorite activity — to keep motivation high during busy or overstimulating days.

4. Model Calm Under Stress

Children take emotional cues from adults. When parents remain calm, even through travel delays or sibling squabbles, children are more likely to follow suit.

Parents use self-regulation strategies like deep breathing, brief time-outs for themselves, and maintaining realistic expectations.

The holidays don’t have to be perfect — they just have to be positive. Helping parents see progress, not perfection, keeps families grounded and connected.

5. Reinforce Skills in the Moment

The holiday season offers natural opportunities to practice social skills — sharing, gratitude, patience, and flexibility. Encourage parents to reinforce these behaviors in real time.

Acknowledge even small improvements: “You waited so nicely while others opened their gifts first.” Over time, this consistent feedback builds confidence and better self-control.

How PMTI Helps Professionals and Families

At the Parent Management Training Institute (PMTI), we train professionals, parents, and caregivers in the Kazdin Method® of Parent Management Training, a research-based approach proven to reduce disruptive behaviors and strengthen parent-child relationships.

Our programs help parents deepen their skillset with tools that are practical, measurable, and effective — especially during high-stress times like the holidays.

To learn more about professional certification or parent coaching resources, visit https://parentmanagementtraininginstitute.com/contact-us.

FAQs About Our Proven Strategies for Positive Child Behavior Changes & Parent Management Training Techniques and Resources

How does the Kazdin Method® differ from traditional discipline approaches?
The Kazdin Method® focuses on positive reinforcement and shaping behavior through praise, rewards, and consistent structure rather than punishment or consequence-based methods. It teaches parents and professionals how to build cooperation and motivation in children through scientifically supported techniques.

Can professionals integrate the Kazdin Method® into existing therapy models?
Absolutely. Many clinicians, behavior specialists, and educators successfully integrate PMT principles alongside CBT, family therapy, or school interventions. PMTI offers training that helps professionals adapt the approach for diverse settings.

What’s one key strategy for parents during the holidays?
Parents can focus on one or two behaviors to reinforce — not everything at once. For example, praising calm waiting or gentle play can make a significant difference in maintaining peace during gatherings.

How can professionals learn PMT techniques?
PMTI offers certification and continuing education courses for therapists, counselors, educators, and coaches. Visit our Training page to explore options for individuals or organizations.

Does PMTI provide resources directly to parents?
Yes — PMTI provides virtual and in-person parent training sessions, helping families apply PMT strategies at home for lasting behavioral improvement.

We Help Families Enjoy the Holidays — Not Just Survive Them
This holiday season, empower your family with proven parent training tools using the Kazdin Method®. Learn how families with challenging situations can manage stressful times with confidence and love.

👉 Contact PMTI to learn more about our parent coaching programs.

As we welcome the fresh energy of spring, it’s a perfect time for professionals in child behavior management to refresh their knowledge and stay current with the latest developments in the field. With research evolving rapidly, it’s vital for those working with children to be aware of the most effective, evidence-based strategies. This blog explores recent advancements in behavioral treatment and highlights how methods like Parent Management Training (PMT) can create lasting, positive changes in children’s behavior.

The Power of Evidence-Based Practices in Treating Behavioral Problems

Behavioral programs have long been a cornerstone in the treatment of ADHD, anxiety, Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), and other behavioral challenges. Research consistently supports the effectiveness of structured, evidence-based approaches that empower parents and caregivers to manage negative behavior in real-time while reinforcing positive changes. These programs not only help reduce problematic behaviors but also teach and strengthen more appropriate skills, such as emotional regulation, problem-solving, and cooperation. By using clear expectations, consistent reinforcement, and effective strategies, parents can create an environment that encourages long-term behavioral improvements and skill development.

One of the most effective methods is Parent Management Training (PMT), a scientifically proven approach that provides parents with practical strategies to reshape their child’s behavior through consistency, clear expectations, and reinforcement.

At the forefront of this field is the Parent Management Training Institute (PMTI), founded by Tracie Bush, M.A., CKPMT. PMTI offers an intensive, structured program that equips parents and professionals with the skills needed to promote positive behavior, reduce disruptive behaviors, and create lasting change.

The Kazdin Method® Parent Management Training: A Groundbreaking Approach to Treating Children

Dr. Alan Kazdin, a distinguished child psychologist at Yale University, made one of the most groundbreaking contributions to this field over 50 years ago. He developed Parent Management Training (PMT) to address challenging behaviors associated with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), Conduct Disorder, and ADHD. The Kazdin Method® focuses on equipping parents and caregivers with strategies to manage behavior effectively, set clear expectations, and use reinforcement consistently. With a 92% success rate his evidence-based approach has demonstrated remarkable success in both clinical practice and real-world applications, transforming the way professionals and families approach behavioral challenges.

Tracie Bush is one of only four Kazdin Method® Specialists worldwide who had the privilege of working directly with Dr. Alan Kazdin at Yale University. With her expertise, she empowers families to successfully implement this transformative program. Additionally, as a certified specialist, she is authorized by Dr. Kazdin to train and certify other professionals in Kazdin Method® Parent Management Training (PMT), further expanding its impact in both clinical and real-world settings.

Under her leadership at the Parent Management Training Institute (PMTI), countless families and professionals have gained a deeper understanding of this evidence-based approach, leading to meaningful and lasting behavior change. As research continues to highlight the crucial role of parental involvement in changing a child’s behavior, the Kazdin Method® remains a cornerstone in shaping behavior, reducing disruptive actions, and fostering positive, long-term change.

The Role of Positive Reinforcement in Managing Behavior

Research continues to stress the importance of positive reinforcement. Studies suggest that children are more likely to respond well to behaviors that are consistently acknowledged and rewarded. Positive reinforcement encourages kids to repeat desirable actions and reduces the likelihood of unwanted behaviors. Programs like PMT place a strong emphasis on this principle, helping parents create an environment where their child’s positive behaviors are recognized and celebrated in a consistent, structured way.

It’s important for professionals to stay aware of the growing body of research that supports the critical role of reinforcement. Kazdin’s studies imparticular, showed that the timing of reinforcement, the type of reward, and the consistency with which rewards are provided can significantly affect the outcome of treatment. Professionals can use these insights to refine their approaches and better support families seeking effective behavior management strategies.

Recent Articles On Behavioral Treatment For Children

5 Signs of Disorganized Attachment in Kids, and How to Support Them: Parents

This article explores the concept of disorganized attachment in children, which can arise due to inconsistent or frightening behavior from caregivers. It highlights five key signs that may indicate a child has disorganized attachment, including unpredictable behavior, difficulty trusting others, and emotional dysregulation. The article also offers strategies for supporting children with this attachment style, such as creating a stable, predictable environment, providing consistent emotional support, and fostering secure relationships.

How to Support a Child With Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD): VeryWellMind

This article provides an overview of Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), a mood disorder in children characterized by severe temper outbursts and irritability. It explains the symptoms and diagnostic criteria for DMDD, which often include frequent mood swings and difficulty regulating emotions. The article outlines strategies for managing DMDD, such as setting clear expectations, using cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), and, in some cases, considering medication to help stabilize mood and behavior.

Staying Current with the Latest Studies and Resources

The landscape of behavioral treatment is always evolving, and professionals must stay updated on the latest research and evidence-based practices. To stay informed, here are some key resources and research articles:

Enhancement of Inhibitory Control in Children: A study in Frontiers in Psychiatry reported that Behavioral Parent Training (BPT) not only decreases ADHD symptoms and negative parenting practices but also significantly improves children’s inhibitory control, which is crucial for self-regulation. Study
PMTI Blog and Website: For those interested in learning more about the Kazdin Method® approach to PMT and the latest insights on behavioral interventions for children with diagnoses such as ADHD and ODD, visit PMTI’s website.
Recommendations from Health Authorities: The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommend that for children younger than 6 years old, parent training in behavior management should be the first line of treatment before considering medication. This approach equips parents with skills and strategies to help their child succeed across various settings. cdc.gov

Why Spring is the Perfect Time for a Fresh Start

Just as we refresh our homes and gardens during the spring season, it’s also an ideal time to refresh your approach to behavior management. Whether you’re a professional working with families or a parent looking to implement strategies at home, the spring season provides an opportunity for new beginnings and positive change. With the latest research on the importance of behavioral interventions, including Parent Management Training, now is the perfect time to take action and improve the behavior outcomes of the children you work with.

Take the Next Step with PMTI

If you’re a professional interested in enhancing your skills or a parent eager to implement the latest behavior management strategies, consider reaching out to Tracie Bush and the PMTI team. With decades of expertise and a proven track record, PMTI offers training, support, and resources that can make a real difference in the lives of children and their families.

For more information on how PMTI can support your work, visit PMTI’s About Us page.

By staying current with the latest research and integrating methods like PMT into your practice, you can spring into better behavior management and help children thrive in their homes and communities.