For many families, summer break is a welcome pause from the busy school-year routine. But for children with behavioral challenges – and their parents – the lack of structure can quickly turn from exciting to overwhelming.
As one of only four Certified Kazdin Method® Specialists worldwide, I often hear from parents struggling to maintain the positive behaviors they worked so hard to build during the school year. The good news? You can make summer fun and structured – with just a few intentional strategies.
Why Summer Structure Matters
Research shows that children thrive with predictability. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, structure promotes well-being and helps children feel safe. Without the daily routine of school, children may experience increased anxiety, oppositional behavior, or difficulty regulating emotions.
This is especially true for children with ADHD, ODD, or other behavioral conditions. That’s why summer is the perfect time to intentionally reinforce the behavior strategies that work – including evidence-based Parent Management Training (PMT).
“The best way to eliminate an unwanted behavior is to build a strong alternative behavior in its place, what’s called the positive opposite of the unwanted behavior.”
— Dr. Alan Kazdin, Yale University
At PMTI, we specialize in the Kazdin Method®, an evidence-based PMT approach with a 92% success rate in reducing aggressive and defiant behaviors. Learn more about our training programs for parents.
5 Tips to Keep Summer Structured (Without Killing the Fun)
1. Create a Daily Summer Schedule – Together
Sit down with your child and co-create a daily routine. Include wake-up and bedtime, meals, chores, free time, and family activities. Use pictures or charts for younger kids to help them visualize the day.
➡️ Tip: Build in “choice time” so kids feel a sense of autonomy, which reduces power struggles.
➡️ Tip: If your child struggles with chores, summer reading, or outdoor play, make those activities a requirement for earning screen time—but be specific. For example: “You will be allowed to play on your iPad or Xbox for 2 hours daily during the summer when we are home. And all you need to do to earn access to your devices for your first 1 hour is to complete one chore of my choosing, read for 15 minutes, and play outside for at least 30 minutes. Once your hour is up, you can earn another 30 minutes of screens by doing a different activity, like playing outside or with your toys. If you are calm when screens are paused and/or over for the day, you will earn an additional 30 minutes the next day!”
2. Use Positive Reinforcement – Every Day
The Kazdin Method® emphasizes praising behaviors you want to see more of. Be specific and enthusiastic. For example: “I love how you started your reading time right when the timer went off!”
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3. Keep Expectations Clear and Manageable
Summer often comes with looser rules, but consistency is key. Avoid vague instructions like “Be good today,” and instead offer concrete expectations like “Put your plate in the sink after lunch.”
4. Practice Transitions with Rewards
Going from the pool to dinnertime or from screen time to chores can trigger meltdowns. Use your PMT tools to prepare your child ahead of time: review the schedule, preview what comes after the next activity and when they are going from a preferred activity to an unpreferred one let them know when their time is almost up and what they can earn for transitioning calmly. Using the example of screen time above: “You have 15 more minutes of iPad time left. Remember, if you are calm when the iPad goes off, you will earn 30 extra minutes of iPad time tomorrow when you earn access to your screens for the day!”
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5. Don’t Over-Schedule – But Keep Predictability
Too many camps or travel plans can overwhelm sensitive kids. Balance structured activities with quiet time. Even small daily rituals like morning walks or evening stories can provide the grounding children need.
Summer PMT Coaching: You’re Not Alone
Summer is a great time to learn effective skills for parenting kids with ADHD, ODD, or other behavioral problems. At PMTI, we offer individual coaching for parents, including virtual options that fit into your summer schedule.
If your child’s behavior starts to regress or tensions rise, remember: change is possible, and we’re here to help you implement it.
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